By Shahina Saran
Poor grades in CBSE Result 2020? Please don’t worry.
The union, HRD Minister Ramesh Pokhriyal NishankCentral Board of Secondary Education (CBSE). A total of 91.46 percent of students have passed the examination. There is an increase of 0.36 percent compared to last year’s year’s 91.10 percentage, and a total of 8.9 percent of students didn’t feel able to make it. In discouraging results, Family members should remain calm and provide their tormented children with love and care.
The CBSE has announced CBSE 10th as well as 12th result. It is a stressful time for students, parents as well as teachers. Some students are happy, and some haven’t got the grade they have expected. If there result is not positive or less positive many things are going in the head of the children some of them who haven’t scored good marks think that they have failed the exam for life that there is no life or dream beyond that. And the most crucial thing that triggers the children are, “What will the people or friends think about me?” And this can lead them to a poor mental state. It is essential for everyone who is with the children whether they are parents’ grandparents or other family members to emotionally support the child by loving them and explaining to them that exams are necessary but not beyond life.
Never scold your children for fewer marks, no one is perfect on the earth. And everyone is not born with the same quality. As a parent’s the first thing you should keep in mind is you have to remain calm because the child is going through several feelings like how to face friends teacher and every one so you need to be quiet and calm the child that this was just an exam we will work hard and pass the next exam with flying colors. Another most important thing is that never compare your child with other children, as you know, every child is different in one or another way. If your child is not good at studies, he/she might be right in any other thing. If your child wants to cry, let him/her cry, don’t let them hold their emotions for long times.
Low or no parents’ support:
Parents built a very high pressure on their children’s mind without motivating them even once. Parents were not approachable for children until they were dead; after that, their parents kept calling them. It can deduce that it was the parents who pushed their children to take an extreme step.
Fear of society:
Most of the students are scare of their relatives or neighbor. The student does not feel safe when they ask about their result. They think that people will laugh at them. Friends, classmates will make fun of him. Their family will be humiliated in society and outcaste. They did not know that this is just a month-long reaction in a life of 70 or 80 years. Short term perspective about life: Failing in any class or subject doesn’t mean ending life. Most of the student thinks that after failing in any class opportunities end, and there is no scope available in his future. There is no bright future. Those who pass the exam will only achieve something.
Instant shock:
Again, with no one to discuss, motivate and console them, an immense pressure builds inside their mind, which makes every other thing in this world irrelevant, forcing them to end their life instantly.
What is the solution?
Motivate a friend or colleague who couldn’t Succeed recently, never humiliate or shame people for the same. If you are a parent and wish a bright future for your children, remember that the first criteria for a bright future are that your child needs to be alive. If you are a student and have failed a paper, remember one thing that after ten years when you would have moved on well in life, you would laugh off at this failure for which you are ready to give your experience today!
If you observe a noticeable change in someone you know, talk to them or talk to their loved ones, you would be a savior of humanity. If your child is confused about the carrier, always ask for help. Councilors are still there to help you; they will guide you on the right path. Suicide is not a solution to any problem. You will be fine soon. Only one failure in life cannot fix, and that’s suicide. You aren’t born to fail; you’re born to survive conveyed Prakash Kumar, Founder, Tech&Taught to Prittle Prattle News.
